Meeting Swingers cont When you have met someone with experience, who is willing to guide you in the ways of the lifestyle, try to attend a few parties, most groups have dinner nights so allow people to make first contact with other people, and perhaps find potential swinging partners. There is no obligation to dive straight in, nor do any thing you don’t want too, you will find the experienced swingers are more than kind, and will help you if you’re new. Your level of involvement is completely up to you, and what you feel comfortable with. When you have a little experience with swinging, but haven’t found a couple you have ‘clicked’ with yet, try posting ads in local magazines, or by visiting swinger sites on the internet. But there are two sides to this coin, you may end up meeting a couple that you really like, and they like you, and all is well. On the other hand, you may end up meeting some pretty sleazy ones, sometimes this is just trial and error. Try to get to know them on the phone or over the internet first, if you would like to meet them, perhaps then meet them for a ‘quick’ coffee, this way, if you don’t feel comfortable with them, you can leave pretty quick without too much problem, from there, do what you feel comfortable with, who knows, they could become life long friends and swinging partners. Back to Index <<< Back